The WS Mental Health and Empathy Thread

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tell me I’d love to know.

Well the the fact that I was hired over the phone after a 5 minute conversation with no experience to run the ENTIRE ACCOUNTING process for his two car dealerships just on a whim should tell you a lot about our ownership quality :heston
 
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Well the the fact that I was hired over the phone after a 5 minute conversation with no experience to run the ENTIRE ACCOUNTING process for his two car dealerships just on a whim should tell you a lot about our ownership quality :heston

well have you done a good job
 

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well have you done a good job

Yes better than any person who was selling shoes before being hired would have been expected, but that's besides the point. He didn't look at a resume, call references or anything. Also we've been experiencing a mass exodus of employee's this year fed up and my one employee might be next which would leave me covering 3 jobs :worried I would like to find a new one before shit really hits the fan here preferably.
 

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Yes better than any person who was selling shoes before being hired would have been expected, but that's besides the point. He didn't look at a resume, call references or anything. Also we've been experiencing a mass exodus of employee's this year fed up and my one employee might be next which would leave me covering 3 jobs :worried I would like to find a new one before shit really hits the fan here preferably.

do you work super long hours cause of all the shit
 

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do you work super long hours cause of all the shit

I was at first bc of how fucked everything was but once I got it cleared up I'm able to do 8-5 Mon-Fri but I usually just gotta work through lunch. I'm fairly caught up now with business being slow thankfully, Fridays especially are usually pretty chill, mostly just gotta be here in case someone needs me to sign a check or take a phone call.
 

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I was at first bc of how fucked everything was but once I got it cleared up I'm able to do 8-5 Mon-Fri but I usually just gotta work through lunch. I'm fairly caught up now with business being slow thankfully, Fridays especially are usually pretty chill, mostly just gotta be here in case someone needs me to sign a check or take a phone call.

Well then it doesn’t sound too bad. Have you been applying to other ones
 

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Well then it doesn’t sound too bad. Have you been applying to other ones

Just started to really. The main thing is I think we might be fucked if we get audited from all the past shit and I don't wanna be the one in charge if that ever happens :hayden3
 
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Just started to really. The main thing is I think we might be fucked if we get audited from all the past shit and I don't wanna be the one in charge if that ever happens :hayden3

Well blame it on the owner and dip.
 
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hey my name is Alex am a transman , i live with my partner Andrew i have Borderline Personality Disorder, OCD ,PTSD and self harm and eating disorder, i also lost my dad to suicide 9 years ago on 17th sept and i lost a friends a month ago to the same way , i havent self harmed in 6 months and am trying to eat somewhat healthy ,
 

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hey my name is Alex am a transman , i live with my partner Andrew i have Borderline Personality Disorder, OCD ,PTSD and self harm and eating disorder, i also lost my dad to suicide 9 years ago on 17th sept and i lost a friends a month ago to the same way , i havent self harmed in 6 months and am trying to eat somewhat healthy ,

You’re in a safe place here. Hate to hear about your dad and your friend. Both of those couldn’t have been easy. Hopefully you’re able to stay strong and keep on this path of good eating and not harming yourself. Much love to you.


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I haven't been here for a while but felt it might have been time.

Yesterday morning I was awoken with the news that my aunt lost her battle with cancer during the night, passing peacefully in her sleep.

I'm fairly heartbroken at the moment, and just not in a good place mentally. It hurts to have lost her, but even worse is the feeling of emotional detachment from my own personal depression during COVID season in which I've lost my job, moved into a new place, have lost friends over political crap, and last week attended my (different, I have like 8) aunt's brother-in-law's funeral. I've had at least four different mental breakdowns at work in the last month due to working nearly everyday around people who either don't care for others' health, barely understand common sense, or annoy the fuck out of me.

In a nutshell, I hate 2020 and it has made me feel worse about myself the longer it has gone on.
 
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I haven't been here for a while but felt it might have been time.

Yesterday morning I was awoken with the news that my aunt lost her battle with cancer during the night, passing peacefully in her sleep.

I'm fairly heartbroken at the moment, and just not in a good place mentally. It hurts to have lost her, but even worse is the feeling of emotional detachment from my own personal depression during COVID season in which I've lost my job, moved into a new place, have lost friends over political crap, and last week attended my (different, I have like 8) aunt's brother-in-law's funeral. I've had at least four different mental breakdowns at work in the last month due to working nearly everyday around people who either don't care for others' health, barely understand common sense, or annoy the fuck out of me.

In a nutshell, I hate 2020 and it has made me feel worse about myself the longer it has gone on.

I know that we don't know each other very well, and that I am very new to this forum but if you ever need to talk then I am here for you. I understand that this year is rough, and it doesn't seem like it's been an easy one for you. Each day is a new day to start over, and soon this shit storm of a year will be over and we'll be able to start over. Don't blame yourself for things out of your control. I know it's easy to with that voice in your head but just drown it out with something like music or a hobby. Hope this year gets better for you.
 
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I'm back from the shop with the Milk. Sorry it took so long.

On a serious note, it's good to be posting again. Spent the last few months really just disconnecting myself from the internet and whatnot, and just focusing on my self. It's been a good test, and I felt as though I've become a bit stronger I hope. Really does make you realise how skewed things can seem online as well.

Shame to be back on Lockdown here in England, but I do feel like I have an advantage over most people because I don't crave social interaction as much and I'm naturally introverted. I try not to let it affect my mood, and in many ways I think the whole pandemic has made me reflect on a ton and given me time to really sort myself out a little bit.

Not going to lie, I really missed just posting nonsense. I really missed talking to people on here. I also want to thank you guys for coping with my weird rants sometimes, I do hope they make a semblance of sense. I still don't watch Wrestling, haven't done so since March and I honestly don't miss it really. Maybe I'll be interested when crowds return, but it just isn't really an interest to me right now. I much prefer posting on off topic subjects. :zayn

Anyways, I hope you're all well and are okay with this weirdo posting again.
 

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Welcome back :pals:
 
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