Why are girls bitches

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How old is she? Sounds like a confused little girl who doesn't know what she wants.....

Some girls just go out to find love. She's just playing hard to get and is basically an attention whore. She wants your undivided attention and she wants you to "fight" for her so she can feel better. Something tells me she has self esteem issues and it makes her feel better about herself when a guy is fighting for her affections.

The whole "if I call you this name, you have to kiss me" shit shows how immature this girl is. Her friend should really shut the fuck up, though. She shouldn't be telling you anythhing.

If you like her, just sit her down and have a serious conversation. Tell her whatever is on your mind. Everyone can get annoying at times. Just give her a chance and if she still acts like an immature 12 year old, get rid of her.

She's playing games with you. She probably really likes you but is playing hard to get because she wants attention.

the first bolded part- Yea, when i first met her she would always say that she was ugly and that all the other girls at work looked better than her and shit like that

the second bolded part- Last night we were on the phone till like 1 in the morning and she made me tell her that she looked good today when i saw her like 10 times.....this is how the convo. went.

Me: You looked good today like always
Her: Yea, but especially today
Me: Yea of course
Her: Tell me i looked good today, especially today

continue like 5 times

Her: Tell me I looked good...it makes me feel good
 

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the first bolded part- Yea, when i first met her she would always say that she was ugly and that all the other girls at work looked better than her and shit like that

the second bolded part- Last night we were on the phone till like 1 in the morning and she made me tell her that she looked good today when i saw her like 10 times.....this is how the convo. went.

Me: You looked good today like always
Her: Yea, but especially today
Me: Yea of course
Her: Tell me i looked good today, especially today

continue like 5 times

Her: Tell me I looked good...it makes me feel good

As I suspected.

Girls like that can be hard to deal with because they grow accustomed for fishing for comments and getting them.

If she really does dislike her looks, she has to do something about it. I've been there, done that, so I'll give you some of my own personal advice based on my own experience.

In high school, I was shy and boring and didn't have any fashion sense whatsoever. The year I graduated from HS, I started the job I have now. I began to escape the ugly baggy clothes I used to wear and started wearing better clothes (think "Sex and the City, if you've ever seen it) and I started styling my hair and making myself more presentable. People started commenting and paying attention. I didn't do it for the attention (though it's welcome, lol), I did it for myself because I didn't like being the boring looking girl in big baggy clothes and with a boring ponytail.

She needs to be willing to change her look and learn to love herself because if she doesn't love herself, she isn't ready for a relationship. You must love yourself before you love another.

She has to stop making people compliment her. It's a sob story and she is definately an attention whore. You really need to sit her down and tell her to get over the bullshit of hating herself and do something about it because if she relies on people telling her she looks good just to make her feel better, she'll get nowhere in life.

Making you tell her that shit all the time is garbage. She needs to grow out of that BS.
 

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Thank You....Thank You

Like when i talked to her she said that she doesnt think she is ugly but she likes to be complimented...

So what should i tell her...I am thinking of something like...When you realize that your ready for a relationship and realize that i am the guy that you really do need than come talk to me
 

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Thank You....Thank You

Like when i talked to her she said that she doesnt think she is ugly but she likes to be complimented...

So what should i tell her...I am thinking of something like...When you realize that your ready for a relationship and realize that i am the guy that you really do need than come talk to me


She actually admitted that she doesn't think she's ugly? Wow, attention whore, indeed.

I like what you put there about the relationship. You should also tell her that when she stops being immature about her behaviour and fishing for compliments, you'll be there for her but until then, you don't have time for stupid mind games.
 

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I'll let you kno how it goes....but what do u think will happen so i can be prepared
 

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Yeah, she pretty much wants attention. I knew a girl like this, she was dating one of my friends, but would always flirt with me and my boy Randy when he wasn't around. She would come to school sad some days talkin abut her and dude were having problems, and I believed it at first. But then I would notice she'd be fine one second, and sad the next. Turns out, nothing was even going on with her, she would just act like something was bothering her so people can give her attention. I liked her at one point, but her act got old, and I stopped giving a fuck.
 

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yea dude...so u think i should just fall back, wait for it to get old and then i wont like her like i do
 

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Dude, just run away from her. Like I said before. I was in almost that exact type of friendship when I was in High School....granted, I feel I'm a better person for surviving it, but man did she fuck me up. So run. Everything you've said reminds me of the girl I knew. Lady Hotrod is probably right in her opinion of the girl. But I don't believe it will ever work. You'll drive yourself crazy, because she in my opinion is the type of girl that will never change, at least not until after she walks into the real work and gets hit with a cold dose of reality. Bottom line the relationship is doomed at this stage of your life, so just run and safe yourself the grief and agony.
 

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Its not them, its you.


I completely second this.....

you can not make a big bold sweeping statement like all girls are bitches.....

The problem lies in yourself, your just not willing to accept it, so you project everything that is going wrong onto her and assume the problem is with her...because of course it couldn't be with you now could it.....?
 

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I'll let you kno how it goes....but what do u think will happen so i can be prepared

She might get upset but who cares. If she really wants to be serious, she'll understand your point and try to help herself. If she doesn't want to help herself, just walk away. She isn't worth your time and if she cared about you, she would work things out.
 

the dark knight

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for some reason i posted a reply and doesn't show up in RIAT as the latest post. here it is again:

Way to fucking generalize an entire gender based on some worthless bitch you know.


Guys cheat just as much as girls do. Fuck, my friend in high school had 3 relationships (not at the same time) and two of her BFs hit on me at her fucking house when she threw parties. I mean, the girl is RIGHT THERE and they go and flirt with me as if she isn't even alive. That's just fucking bullshit.


I've been with my husband for 5 years now. He's the only man I have ever had because (get ready for this) THERE ARE FEMALES OUT THERE WHO HAVE MORALS. In my opinion, people who cheat should be shot in the fucking face. If you aren't happy with your relationship, end it and move on. There is no excuse to go and cheat. I could never even think of doing something as shitty as that.

In the end, people cheat no matter what gender they are so don't fucking make a thread and act as if women are the only ones who do it and refer to all women as bitches for cheating as if every single one of us does it. Even though your women are piles of shit for cheating on you, people usually cheat because they aren't sexually satisfied so maybe if you made your dick hard and fucked them like a real man should, they wouldn't have run off.

I really hate when people generalize based on their own experiences.
i used to hate it too. but seriously, on whos experience should we base our judgment on? thats why everyone has his own brain.

you just answer yourself here. usually, when men cheat on their women they fucking tell her you suck before they do it. when women do it, not only do they not tell you its over, they expect you to forgive them and still be theirs. another thing, men usually (i never cheated on anyone myself, just from what i see) cheat on their women cuz of something they did....no good excuse at all but still better than womens'. women cheat on their men for stupid fucking childish immature reasons like....INSECURITY? i dunno, you summed it up in later post.

Sounds like a confused little girl who doesn't know what she wants.....

Some girls just go out to find love. She's just playing hard to get and is basically an attention whore. She wants your undivided attention and she wants you to "fight" for her so she can feel better. Something tells me she has self esteem issues and it makes her feel better about herself when a guy is fighting for her affections.
SEEEEEEE? thats exactly why i fucking hate most women. MOST of them sound ARE confused little girls...at least from our age. did you just say SOME? its MOST! MOST girls are insecure bitches who have to fuck a guy's life to feel better about theirselves. MOST of girls (again, atleast from our age) are fucking attention whores. MOST girls DO like their guy when they do that....its still no fucking excuse to fuck a man's life really.

Its not them, its you.
how many times have you broken up a relationship? its not them, its you.

btw, i remember you made a thread last year about having a child? you gave him up for adoption or what? you never told us what happened afterwards..
One of the unanswered questions of life...
its answered, but we still cant do anything about it.


just an advice here, WUCK FOMEN. this is maybe my problem too...im too soft with girls cuz i care about their feelings. its not being a "wuss".....i dunno, but it pisses me off too when you get a chance to fuck them over but you dont do it cuz you care, then they call you a pussy for it.
 

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i used to hate it too. but seriously, on whos experience should we base our judgment on? thats why everyone has his own brain.


Judging a group of people based on your experience with a few isn't justified.

you just answer yourself here. usually, when men cheat on their women they fucking tell her you suck before they do it. when women do it, not only do they not tell you its over, they expect you to forgive them and still be theirs. another thing, men usually (i never cheated on anyone myself, just from what i see) cheat on their women cuz of something they did....no good excuse at all but still better than womens'. women cheat on their men for stupid fucking childish immature reasons like....INSECURITY? i dunno, you summed it up in later post.

Actually, it really depends on the person. You can't say all because you haven't been cheated on by all. You get what I am saying? It's like saying "all chips are gross" after only trying one kind. Both men AND women have their own ways of cheating. The scenerios between men and women that you presented actually goes both ways. There are men who do it and expect forgiveness and there are women who tell th eguy he's fucking shit before they cheat so you really can't say that each gender does it that way....Gender doesn't matter. The way it goes down is based on the individual.


SEEEEEEE? thats exactly why i fucking hate most women. MOST of them sound ARE confused little girls...at least from our age. did you just say SOME? its MOST! MOST girls are insecure bitches who have to fuck a guy's life to feel better about theirselves. MOST of girls (again, atleast from our age) are fucking attention whores. MOST girls DO like their guy when they do that....its still no fucking excuse to fuck a man's life really.

Most is a large majority. There are a lot of women in this world and it is unfair to use the word most. I have female friends and none of them are confused morons. Some is a better word for it. It's usually the younger girls who don't know what they want because they still need to grow up.




just an advice here, WUCK FOMEN. this is maybe my problem too...im too soft with girls cuz i care about their feelings. its not being a "wuss".....i dunno, but it pisses me off too when you get a chance to fuck them over but you dont do it cuz you care, then they call you a pussy for it.

You can't blame women for that. Blame society. It's not a woman's fault if other people think you are a pussy so it's pretty stupid for you to basically put the blame on women's shoulders.


Maybe I'm a rare woman but I have had one man my entire life; my husband. He's my first and last love. I could neer even imagine cheating. Hell, I don't even give a shit what other guys think of me. They could be drooling all over my shoes and I wouldn't give a shit because I am loyal to my husband and respect him. I don't care if Sean Connery stepped into a time machine and went back in time 50 years. I still wouldn't leave my husband or do anything like that to him because I have morals.