Mafia General Discussion

[Smart Marx]

if you want less toxic games, you need to attempt or have someone else attempt to fix the problem and resolve them.

or just ban everyone that disagree with you.

im not going attempt to solve anymore problems or help when it clearly not needed.

Fix what problem? And do you think people should be allowed to be toxic if they haven’t fixed their problems? Are we suggesting an unmoderated game state?

The only solution you’ve come up with is for Grim to message TP, but that has little or nothing to do with a million other things that have happened.

And if they don’t work it out, what we shouldn’t ask people not flame and bring drama in the meantime?

Most of the time you come in here it’s just for you to ask me why I have a problem with other people starting problems. Why people should just be allowed to do or say what they want. If that’s your position that’s fine, but I don’t personally get it. You don’t become less toxic by not moderating when people get toxic.

And this banning people stuff is wild. Only you are bringing this up. No one said anything about banning people and that wouldn’t solve any problems.

 

[Grimoire Lenin]

So do we want unmoderated games or do we want people to be held accountable when they start flaming? You people are supremely unclear on this shit, and flip flop between it all the time.

 

[Smart Marx]

So do we want unmoderated games or do we want people to be held accountable when they start flaming? You people are supremely unclear on this shit, and flip flop between it all the time.

This.

 

[Smart Marx]

This. Tell me right now what you guys want. Do you want a game where nobody says shit and you guys can just play how you want or do you wanna game where we actually moderate it when she gets out of hand. I don’t want people trying to have it both ways. I don’t wanna hear about people complaining that I didn’t mod a game I was playing Only then to be mad about the nanny state. Tell us right now how you want the sectional for it and will go with it. If you want a fucking flame free fucking zone to do what you want to say what you want let me know now and that’s what I will do

 

[CakeWalker]

i love that i am suggesting the exact opposite thing of what you are pushing im saying. this warping of reality is insane.

 

[CakeWalker]

i said - problem should be attempted to be resolved. which i was attempting to do earlier, before a double standard flag was being raised in the air. I'll keep clear of the mafia section here - keep on chasing members away from speaking up.

 

[Smart Marx]

i love that i am suggesting the exact opposite thing of what you are pushing im saying. this warping of reality is insane.

You seemed upset that I was asking people to stop flaming and stop bringing drama into new games. Am I incorrect in this assumption? Do you want me to continue doing things the way I’ve been doing because it seemed like you had a problem with it.

 

[Hidden Blaze]

I got a question. Why does Grim have to be the one to reach out? Can’t TPein do that as well?

edit: nvm lol been told why this isn’t possible

 

[CakeWalker]

you can manage flaming - but if you're not going to deal with the issues after the game, then what the point.

pro-active moderating during a game, but hands off a fresh slate in-between game i just a vicious cycle. My biggest argument is a desire for problem resolution.

And that snide comments - no matter who says it should warrant the same reaction.

 

[Smart Marx]

i said - problem should be attempted to be resolved. which i was attempting to do earlier, before a double standard flag was being raised in the air. I'll keep clear of the mafia section here - keep on chasing members away from speaking up.

I’m asking 1 million questions to tell me when the double standard is and I never get the answer a single time. When has anyone ever been told they could do something that someone else wasn’t allowed to do?

And what were you doing to resolve the issue. Do you think the only problem is Grim and TP not talking or are there other solutions?

You keep saying that to fix the problems we have to talk about it and you keep trying to clam up. Come out with it give me a list of problems we need to address and we’ll address them.

 

[Wang Chung]

Look. Pretty sure everyone is over the age of 18 now since Blaine has graduated high school.

I don't have an issue with anyone here. I like to play the game regardless of how much time I have and don't have.

All this petty high school drama needs to stop. This is not a Mean Girls movie. Yes there have been times in games where I said what is this nonsense I am reading but I just moved on because guess what as an adult I find it easier to move on past it than create drama over things that offends me because I am no more special than anyone else.

Have I gotten heated in games? I sure have not as much here but in other places. How hard is it for people to walk away from a game for awhile to clear their thoughts and rejoin. I have learned it's a game after my wife yelled at me for yelling at her from a game I was playing due to my frustration. I had to step back and say hey it's a game of deception. I get mad when we say things that we can clearly see or when being accused of something when we didn't do anything it is frustrating when you plead your case to someone and it's not going over well and no one is listening to you.


OMB is a good example of this. Last game, he was railroaded by Sully in the game he didn't fight it, but he is used to it because he is constant day 1 fodder from where we all played at. Pretrybsure it's Juice and Sky here atm. I am sure rheu get frustrated over it like everyone else does when they get lynched day 1 usually for nothing or how they switch votes and OMB's gut which by the way was correct.

Play the game move on if you have an issue talk it out some how. Use coflict resolution to resolve things. We are adults not kids.

Thank you for reading my Wang talk.



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[Smart Marx]

you can manage flaming - but if you're not going to deal with the issues after the game, then what the point.

pro-active moderating during a game, but hands off a fresh slate in-between game i just a vicious cycle. My biggest argument is a desire for problem resolution.

And that snide comments - no matter who says it should warrant the same reaction.

What’s your suggestion? I mean as the host you could have brought up something you wanted done.

Do you think game bans should be implemented?

 

[CakeWalker]

i mean you threatened a player with a game ban - T-Pein during the game.

Whilst a much more toxic arguement was taking place between SA and Jeff.

im just bored of this Smark. We don't need to be friends, if you don't like honest viewpoints.

 

[Smart Marx]

you can manage flaming - but if you're not going to deal with the issues after the game, then what the point.

pro-active moderating during a game, but hands off a fresh slate in-between game i just a vicious cycle. My biggest argument is a desire for problem resolution.

And that snide comments - no matter who says it should warrant the same reaction.

Also, iMessage Jeff personally to resolve the issue with sister and as far as I’m aware they resolved the issue in game did they not? Didn’t sister and Jeff agree that they were gonna be more chill and then there was another problem after that? So my question to you is what should we have done after the game if they already resolved in the game?

The only other lingering issue was with Barry and I’ve been giving you permission to tag him and resolve this this entire time. Please resolve the issue with Barry.

 

[Hidden Blaze]

Look. Pretty sure everyone is over the age of 18 now since Blaine has graduated high school.

I don't have an issue with anyone here. I like to play the game regardless of how much time I have and don't have.

All this petty high school drama needs to stop. This is not a Mean Girls movie. Yes there have been times in games where I said what is this nonsense I am reading but I just moved on because guess what as an adult I find it easier to move on past ahit than create drama over things that offends me because I am noose special than anyone else.

Have I gotten heated in games? I sure have not as much here but in other places. How hard is it for people to walk away from a game for awhile to clear their thoughts and rejoin. I have learned it's a game after my wife yelled at me for yelling at her from a game I was playing due to my frustration. I had to step back and say hey it's a game of deception. I get mad when we say things that we can clearly see or when being accused of something when we didn't do anything it is frustrating when you plead your case to someone and it's not going over well and no one is listening to you.


OMB is a good example of this. Last game he was railroaded by Sully in the game he didn't fight it but he is used to is because he is constant day 1 fodder from where we all played at. Pretrybsure it's Juice and Sky here atm. I am sure rheu get frustrated over it like everyone else does when they get lynched day 1 usually for nothing or how they switch votes and OMB's gut which by the way was correct.

Play the game move on if you have an issue talk it out some how. Use coflict resolution to resolve things. We are adults not kids.

Thank you for reading my Wang talk.



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Yeah, I let some frustration out the other day in the nascar thread myself when playing. Realized I was letting my frustration leak out of the game thread and apologized for it to the people who I was moody towards because I was like that’s not a good example of how to act. As you said at the end of the day it’s a game.