If I had to pick which one to happen, sure I'd take the picture shit happening but wouldn't it be nice you know to not have either happen? The way I see it, if your boyfriend/girlfriend has to get other chicks to send you nudes then something is wrong with the relationship and you shouldn't be dating. The ONLY reason porn is different is cause it's not something that's made or done just for you, it's on the internet for everyone to see, etc. I'm not going to let it stop me from enjoying content he does in the future or anything. But he is a shitty boyfriend like you said.People cheat on their spouses all the time and even if you consider this 100% cheating like he was fucking other women, it wouldn't really be a big deal at all. He's just a shitty boyfriend.