I am really surprised no one has called me spammer to be quite honest.
On topic though, tomorrow will be another milestone for me for two reasons. 1) I would have quit smoking and drinking for over 5 years, and 2) I get to visit my father's grave for the first time ever.I didn't get to go to his funeral nor have I ever visited his grave.
You stay on topic and know when to throw a short funny in, you are fine.
And congrats on both of those things. I hope the second one brings you closure or whatever you are seeking from it.