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Give me some force powers and a green double bladed saber and I'll be fine.
 
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I wish, I had the Intercontinental Championship!
 

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I wish I could break dance like a mofo, lol.

If there is anything ive learned in my 27 years, it's that fitting in isnt worth compromising. Work hard at school and the things you like doing and youll be able to go to a school where you meet like-minded people. Just because you arent the champ at one spot doesnt mean you wont make friends somewhere you can succeed at.
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I wish my Anxiety never came up as it would make life a whole lot easier and less stressful and my training would be a lot easier without that fear from Anxiety.

I would wish I could fit in with normal people and like football and shit but fuck those guys :dawg:

Wishing it never did implies you think about it a lot. When I think about mine, it is the absolute worst. Took me 7 years to get it into decent control. You have to be patient but at the same time, don't let it ruin your life like I did. Its not worth losing anything over.
 

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Wishing it never did implies you think about it a lot. When I think about mine, it is the absolute worst. Took me 7 years to get it into decent control. You have to be patient but at the same time, don't let it ruin your life like I did. Its not worth losing anything over.

You have Anxiety too? Man, It really has taken control over my life. I try to let it not but sometimes it just does and it gets me down a lot.
 

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You have Anxiety too? Man, It really has taken control over my life. I try to let it not but sometimes it just does and it gets me down a lot.

Yup, lost 2 years of my life from it. I mean for one year straight I literally only left the house (like physically went somewhere) like 10 times. It was bad. Now I am out of shape from that so I have to make up for the lost time. Don't let it control what you do. If you want to do something, DO IT! Anxiety can be embarrassing when it turns into a panic attack but that is all it can be. It's only life threatening (as in keeping you from living life) if you allow it to be.
 
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Yup, lost 2 years of my life from it. I mean for one year straight I literally only left the house (like physically went somewhere) like 10 times. It was bad. Now I am out of shape from that so I have to make up for the lost time. Don't let it control what you do. If you want to do something, DO IT! Anxiety can be embarrassing when it turns into a panic attack but that is all it can be. It's only life threatening (as in keeping you from living life) if you allow it to be.

A couple years back I had a panic attack on my first day of School and it set me off for the next nearly 4 years now, Up until January this year I NEVER left the house, I would not go on a bus myself, I had a panic attack on a 10 minute train ride, When I was 11 (when it first came up) until I was like 13 I would panic if my older sister would go out to a club or something because I feared she would get murdered or something like the most ridiculous things, My wrestling in real life has changed things a lot, In a matter of 8 months I have went from having a panic attack on a 10 minute train with my family to after a show being in the middle of Glasgow myself at 1am and maing my way to the train station and getting a 15 minute train home myself. Things are getting better in some ways and much worse in other things (school mainly). I think this small discussion goes back to the point where online friends are better than real life friends for some people, I cannot speak to ANYONE about my Anxiety, I have a person in my school who inst a teacher or anything but helps me through these things and stuff and she is leaving this Friday and I need to get a new worker of some I dont even know so its pretty hard and outside of that I can't talk to friends or anything yet I feel comfortable talking to someone on the internet on a wrestling forum. Weird stuff aint it.
 

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I wish I could cure cancer, now this sounds cliche but I know someone that has it and i've seen how it made a strong man physically and mentally get broken down. That's the one thing I wish I could do, cure cancer.
 
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A couple years back I had a panic attack on my first day of School and it set me off for the next nearly 4 years now, Up until January this year I NEVER left the house, I would not go on a bus myself, I had a panic attack on a 10 minute train ride, When I was 11 (when it first came up) until I was like 13 I would panic if my older sister would go out to a club or something because I feared she would get murdered or something like the most ridiculous things, My wrestling in real life has changed things a lot, In a matter of 8 months I have went from having a panic attack on a 10 minute train with my family to after a show being in the middle of Glasgow myself at 1am and maing my way to the train station and getting a 15 minute train home myself. Things are getting better in some ways and much worse in other things (school mainly). I think this small discussion goes back to the point where online friends are better than real life friends for some people, I cannot speak to ANYONE about my Anxiety, I have a person in my school who inst a teacher or anything but helps me through these things and stuff and she is leaving this Friday and I need to get a new worker of some I dont even know so its pretty hard and outside of that I can't talk to friends or anything yet I feel comfortable talking to someone on the internet on a wrestling forum. Weird stuff aint it.

You have a form of social anxiety. Seems like certain situations involving people trigger it. I am different, where as it is not so much people as it is feeling I would be stuck somewhere. Its hard to explain. My mom had them when she was my age, still managed to get married, have 3 kids, stay married and have jobs. It does get better. You have to find out what the underlining fear is and go from there. Mine was fear of death. I honestly don't fear it that much anymore. Things like driving on the freeway would trigger my anxiety because I was in a car accident a few years back. My anxiety started when something was wrong with my body and it triggered me to think I was dying. I was a straight hypochondriac for 2 years. Even though my anxiety can be bad at times, it has never stopped me from doing something I REALLY wanted to do. A few months after I had the worst panic attack I ever experienced, and was still having them on almost a daily basis, I went to Cedar Point, which is a huge amusement park in Ohio. I never been there and I wanted to go. Did I have an attack while I was there, yes! I had a few, but I didn't let it stop me from getting on a roller coaster! Mind you, I am terrified of heights. lol Point being, it does get better, you may have to make yourself uncomfortable before it does. I learned that the hard way. The more you put yourself in bad situations, the less an less the anxiety has control over you.
 
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