I’ve said the same thing about Hugh Jackman a few times in my life. I’m not going to go to his house and actually do anything, it’s just a way of describing how much I creepily love him. I get how it can have an impact on a rape victim, but, just about anything anyone says has an impact on someone. I understand not everyone is the same, some people take things more seriously, which is fine, we all have our limits. It’s just easy to forget how someone else will take it. For me, nothing much offends me. I don’t let words bother me. Other people will take it hard. Speaking personally, it can be very difficult to forget not everyone is like me. In the end, gutting the guy for 4 year old comments is ridiculous. If those were his actions, different story, but, words? For me, just stupid to say, sure, but, if this is how the world works now, all of our bosses would be sending us to sensitivity training.