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Aids Johnson

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Jonathan said:
Meh, it wouldn't really bother me. Obviously I'd be annoyed but I'd forgive them. Because that's what I'd want them to do to me if it happened. When drink/drugs are involved it's a lot easier to forget about things that when sober you'd think about and say no.
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drugs are pretty awesome.
 

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Lady Deathbane said:
Yeah, I went through my fair share of shit too. I only have one female friend that I still keep in touch with. Otherwise, everyone else are guys. I can't put up with the bullshit a lot of women start and I'm so tired of it. Hanging with just guys is so much easier and funner. In high school, every time I had different boyfriend, almost all the chicks I knew just talked so much shit it was unbelievable. I wasn't just paranoid either because some of them tried to do that thing chicks do where they pretend to be all nice and the whole time just give backhanded compliments all the time like "you and (bf's name) are the cutest couple ever but what happened to (ex's name)? it seems you guys were together just yesterday" and just shit like that. But I guess no one ever really tried to "steal" my bf's. There were a few occasions where I caught an ex flirting with other girls though, if that still counts. Idk. I guess either I trust too easily or my current one is just that awesome. Either way, I still have to trust him no matter how much shit I've been through because like I said, there's no relationship if there's no trust, just a ticking time bomb.

I had female friend once who was just so jealous that she even told me to never contact her boyfriend again when I didn't even talk to the dude, lmfao. She just gets so wrapped up into relationships that she completely forgets and neglects her friends, so I just gave up with her even though her and I were pretty close. I kept a promise to myself that I'd never be like that, so I guess that also gives more motivation to be more chill, I s'pose.
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I hear that. I had few female friends growing up but every single one was shady. The last one I had I stopped talking to a year or so ago because she talked down about my brother. She was a bossy little thing. Anytime some thing good happened to me she would find a way to make me feel like crap. I remember talking to her about my wedding ring and she was all pissed because I didn't want a small dinky diamond like her. I was like wth is your problem. I didn't want a diamond at all, just a large aquamarine stone and what does that matter anyways? Honestly, your are the first female I have talked to where I didn't feel threatened... I know its only online but still. Females can be so catty.

I do get what your saying, if there is no trust there is no point. It is just a end waiting to happen. I do have to stop comparing him to other people. I know that. Its sometimes hard when I see how his friends are. At the same time though, I have no say in the matter. I consider him my best friend and I just sometimes worry about losing him. We have been together for 4 years now and sometimes... I just get bad thoughts I guess. I have been talked down to my whole life about my looks so that surely plays a role in things. I appreciate you giving some advice though. It is hard to find a female willing to give honest advice on anything. lol
 
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