How would you react?

[catlady]

This is a hypothetical question.
Say you are in a committed, long term relationship or married.
Your lover (giggity) is going to a place where the opposite sex (what you are) will be drunk, almost naked, loose, ect. They will be at this said place for several hours. Most of these men/women are looking to be drunk, go crazy and have a good time. You, however, will not be there and communication will be minimal. How would you feel? Would you trust your lover? Would you be worried/upset?

I ask this questions because a few years ago I was in this situation & I did not handle it very well. I think we all know how most women act when they are drunk... And guys, you're not much better though I think for some reason you can control your actions better than women if that makes any sense at all. lol

 

[Nano]

I wouldn't care because I trust my mate. You think it and realize that everyone when is drunk they do strange things or they'll be sluts. I understand those are things that happen, but I know she probably will come with me again so I wouldn't mind if she did it because I'd have a chance like she did and probably do the exact same thing.

 

[catlady]

I wouldn't care because I trust my mate. You think it and realize that everyone when is drunk they do strange things or they'll be sluts. I understand those are things that happen, but I know she probably will come with me again so I wouldn't mind if she did it because I'd have a chance like she did and probably do the exact same thing.

So you are saying it wouldn't bother you that she would be around a bunch of drunk, almost naked men? Not in the least bit?

 

[GeeTeaIye]

"If you love her let her go. If it was meant to be she will come back and you can have tons of sex."

So yeah, what Nano said. Trust and you shall be trusted

 

[Nano]

So you are saying it wouldn't bother you that she would be around a bunch of drunk, almost naked men? Not in the least bit?

Not in the least bit. That's because I trust her and I know that even if she has sex with drunk guys while she's drunk too those are things that can happen. The only thing that matters to me is that she stays by my side.

 

[catlady]

"If you love her let her go. If it was meant to be she will come back and you can have tons of sex."

So yeah, what Nano said. Trust and you shall be trusted

Wise words there... Sparky. lol

I think its different for women than men. Some women tend to have no issue with messing around with a guy who is in a relationship, where men tend to be more hesitant if the woman is in a relationship. My cousin I no longer speak to slept around and messed around with guys who were in relationships. She didn't care. I am not saying this is all cases, but it seems to be the majority. They try to paint the picture like all men cheat yet you never hear of all the women out there cheating. I think statistically, at this point, more woman cheat then men. lol

 

[catlady]

Not in the least bit. That's because I trust her and I know that even if she has sex with drunk guys while she's drunk too those are things that can happen. The only thing that matters to me is that she stays by my side.

So if she slept with another dude you wouldn't care? :shock:

 

[GeeTeaIye]

more woman cheat then men. lol

#fact

 

[Nano]

So if she slept with another dude you wouldn't care? :shock:

Nope. There's a difference between men and women and it's this one:

She slept with another man... Well, it's a reason fair enough to find a hot girl and sleep with her (That's how men think)
He slept with another woman?! Am I not enough for him? I can't admit this happens again. He's my man! (How women think)

This is overexagerated, but I learnt it watching TV 1:

 

[Swift]

I trust no one/nothing.


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[Senhor Perfect]

Not in the least bit. That's because I trust her and I know that even if she has sex with drunk guys while she's drunk too those are things that can happen. The only thing that matters to me is that she stays by my side.

Do I have to be drunk too? :ksi:

 

[Lockard 23]

I wouldn't trust that at all. People do crazy things when drunk and I know there'd probably be a bunch of guys in a setting like that who would intentionally be looking to get laid, and wouldn't care if the woman was in a committed relationship or not.

I trust no one/nothing.


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These are words of wisdom.

 

[catlady]

I wouldn't trust that at all. People do crazy things when drunk and I know there'd probably be a bunch of guys in a setting like that who would intentionally be looking to get laid, and wouldn't care if the woman was in a committed relationship or not.




These are words of wisdom.

My reaction was not about the trust for my husband but more the trust I have in other women. If a woman is drunk and already loose she isn't going to care if he is married or not.

 

[Nano]

Do I have to be drunk too? :ksi:

I want my first time to be great :ksi:

 

[catlady]

Nope. There's a difference between men and women and it's this one:

She slept with another man... Well, it's a reason fair enough to find a hot girl and sleep with her (That's how men think)
He slept with another woman?! Am I not enough for him? I can't admit this happens again. He's my man! (How women think)

This is overexagerated, but I learnt it watching TV 1:

I think its more like this :

"She slept with another man? *calls ex* "Its game on!" (men)
"He slept with another woman?!" *grabs cars keys* "I'm going to kill that bitch!" (women)

But honestly... If my husband cheated on me... My focus would be on him, not her because he has the final say... No matter how much she tempted him.