Girls & Relationships

[LadyHotrod]

I don't care how much you hated yourself after, it's the fact that you chose to do it.

If I were her, I would have dumped your ass right then and there. "Owning up" to it doesn't change the fact that it shouldn't have happened in the first place.

 

[Hidden Blaze]

Yeah your right..I know that and see if she would have dumped me I would have fully understood why but the fact she didn't shows she truly feels something for me...So your telling me stuff I already know alright..but as you said I didn't sleep with another girl so its not really that bad....

 

[LadyHotrod]

Not really that bad? Wow....


I would never even THINK of giving some guy any pictures of me whatsoever. I have respect for myself, my husband and our relationship. Anyone who steps beyond the boundaries of their relationship lacks respect. Sure, maybe you didn't sleep with her but you are still not loyal.

 

[Hidden Blaze]

Well atleast I'm honest like I said yes what I did was bad but as bad as it could have been is what I meant...

Most guys would have done what I done not told there girlfriend and even went way way more farther then I did so really its not that bad but its still was wrong of me to do...

 

[Moonlight Drive]

Yay, another update

Well today I started chatting to her and she doesn't hate me no more me thinks. I got the usual giggle I do when I pull out one of my jokes, so it seems the hatred is semi no more. I asked as we left class and she said she still hates me a little bit, but tomorrow I'm going to give a full blown apology

Problem is I still think my spot has been replaced by my best friend Hopefully I was right and she just did it to piss me off. Or more than likely I am over-reacting

 

[Hidden Blaze]

Good Luck man

sounds like you might be winning her over...keep us updated.

 

[Moonlight Drive]

I wouldn't need to be winning her over if I wasn't a douche in the first place

There's a lesson for yas: Even if it looks like they don't care, they do

 

[Beer]

Congrats man. Blaze, i don't get why would want to cheat on their partners. For a start she should have left you by now and secondly, if your Girlfriend was the Girl you say she is then why WOULD you cheat on her. To me there are only TWO PLAUSEABLE reasons ANYONE would cheat on there Partner, one, they hate him/her and have no idea why they go out with them, and two, they are sluts/gigolos.

Anyhoo, MY FUCKING BABY IS DUE IN FOUR FUCKING WEEK!!!!! Yayyyyyyy!!!!!
I can't fucking wait.

 

[Hidden Blaze]

Hmmmm..look..I was stupid alright I done said that god damn look that shits in the past anyway and me and my girl are happy together...so just fuck off...


I made a mistake I owned up to it better then must guys who make a mistake like that would do...yes I know I should not have done it in the first place and trust me if I could change it I would...but I can't so there.

 

[Beer]

Blaze, don't get fucking angry with me. I was just pointing out that you made a mistake and i wanted you to feel very bad about it so there would be no way you would do it again. I was actually doing a good thing. Although i undersyand your frustration so you are forgiven.

 

[NinoBrown]

My friend only wanted to fuck her and leave.

That's what I want my college life to be like.

 

[Hidden Blaze]

Blaze, don't get fucking angry with me. I was just pointing out that you made a mistake and i wanted you to feel very bad about it so there would be no way you would do it again. I was actually doing a good thing. Although i undersyand your frustration so you are forgiven.

well the chances of me being a dumbass and doing that again are like 0 in a billion tillion

 

[Beer]

Thats good to find out. Heres some rep.

 

[Hidden Blaze]

But yeah I know me and her just started dating not to long ago but I am falling so hard for her..she is amazing..

So Truly Amazing

 

[Cynic Clinic]

ADVICE
NEVER compliment the girl unless you've known her for at least 2 and a half months. NEVER apologize. Unless you think you did something wrong. NOT if she's just upset about it, ONLY if YOU think you did something wrong.

Honestly, if every guy ACTS like he thinks he's better than her.. and that it's like she amuses you, and that you're doing her a FAVOR by hanging out with her, and if you ACT like she likes you, she probably will soon enough.

My sitch: TWO of my best friends are both obsessed with this girl. BTW, obsession is the WORST thing for a guy. 90% of the time you will fail if you are obsessed. One of them is a clingy guy who's been a real friend and follows her around for the last 6 years through high school and middle school. We'll call him Guy A.

The other is her former ex-boyfriend. A year ago, he was dating two girls at the same time and leading them on telling them both he was their boyfriend. He finally was confronted and had to make a decision and chose the other girl. Now they're broken up and he's talking to this girl again. I think they've made out since then. He's Guy B.

Yesterday I was with Guy A and her. And I was hardcore flirting with her. I would've kissed her if he wasn't there. Even with all of this stuff going on, I still think I'm going to go for it. She leaves to go back to her college on Saturday. I texted her and I'm going to see her sometime during the week.