Senhor Perfect said:My guess is your parents had you when they were young. They were probably shit parents, so now you hold a grudge. It's OK, it's not your fault your dad hates you for being an accident.
Senhor Perfect said:My guess is your parents had you when they were young. They were probably shit parents, so now you hold a grudge. It's OK, it's not your fault your dad hates you for being an accident.
Danielson said:I'm just so glad Jeebak took such an issue with my life. It's really great to know someone is so concerned about the well-being of me. Maybe I can live my life vicariously through him, that way I don't miss out on my 20's. Your argument on one hand is that i'm not mature enough and then you argue that I should be enjoying my 20's. Who says that i'm not enjoying my 20's with my kids? And what exactly is your idea of fun? We can have opposing views and neither one of will be wrong but to simply call me out as immature or anything else is not only wrong, it's borderline Blue
Danielson said:I'm just so glad Jeebak took such an issue with my life. It's really great to know someone is so concerned about the well-being of me. Maybe I can live my life vicariously through him, that way I don't miss out on my 20's. Your argument on one hand is that i'm not mature enough and then you argue that I should be enjoying my 20's. Who says that i'm not enjoying my 20's with my kids? And what exactly is your idea of fun? We can have opposing views and neither one of will be wrong but to simply call me out as immature or anything else is not only wrong, it's borderline Blue
Danielson said:I'm just so glad Jeebak took such an issue with my life. It's really great to know someone is so concerned about the well-being of me. Maybe I can live my life vicariously through him, that way I don't miss out on my 20's. Your argument on one hand is that i'm not mature enough and then you argue that I should be enjoying my 20's. Who says that i'm not enjoying my 20's with my kids? And what exactly is your idea of fun? We can have opposing views and neither one of will be wrong but to simply call me out as immature or anything else is not only wrong, it's borderline Blue
JeebaK said:Im not even gonna bother replying to the posts made in this thread since my last reply because they are far beneath my level of maturity and intellect. However im going to reply to your points spot on.
To start with, you mentioned that your girfriend, possibly the one you had kids with, is currently your ex. If you deny the fact that any child would prefer to live in a home with both their dad and mom together rather than having to visit mom at times or having to visit dad at times and never spending too much quality time with the both of them at the same time, then you are just clueless.
Secondly, im pretty sure you are trying to patch things up with your ex, maybe you arent, i understand people will always love their kids nomatter who the mother is, however i would still prefer my kids' to be my wife's children, not some long lost ex's.
I would say 20s is the time to get a job, meet new people, make new friends and associates in business, have fun with your gf etc etc. In your 20s u never know whether u r going to spend ur entire future with your gf or not, break ups do happen, which has happened in ur case. So waiting till 30s is always a better option than "okay you are my gf lets make some babies right now."
Having kids at 20 is considered wrong in almost every developed country and im amazed that im even trying to prove my points.
JeebaK said:Im not even gonna bother replying to the posts made in this thread since my last reply because they are far beneath my level of maturity and intellect. However im going to reply to your points spot on.
To start with, you mentioned that your girfriend, possibly the one you had kids with, is currently your ex. If you deny the fact that any child would prefer to live in a home with both their dad and mom together rather than having to visit mom at times or having to visit dad at times and never spending too much quality time with the both of them at the same time, then you are just clueless.
Secondly, im pretty sure you are trying to patch things up with your ex, maybe you arent, i understand people will always love their kids nomatter who the mother is, however i would still prefer my kids' to be my wife's children, not some long lost ex's.
I would say 20s is the time to get a job, meet new people, make new friends and associates in business, have fun with your gf etc etc. In your 20s u never know whether u r going to spend ur entire future with your gf or not, break ups do happen, which has happened in ur case. So waiting till 30s is always a better option than "okay you are my gf lets make some babies right now."
Having kids at 20 is considered wrong in almost every developed country and im amazed that im even trying to prove my points.