I mention its good advice from experience btw as I went through a lot of crummy relationships and hit a point when I was single where I just partied constantly with my life falling apart around me. Then I met my gf and she helped me calm down and realise a lot about myself including the fact I didn't need to go out every night to have a good time. I've no regrets from living the crazy life I did I'm just glad someone saw through my put on demeanour and noticed the real me inside. I now go out much more sensibly but still have a great time and she has never stopped me doing anything I want just helped me realise I was being excessive and chilled me the hell out basically. An yup you compromise sometimes I do stuff for her I'm not a huge fan of but she always does it for me as well coming watching bands she aint into so I can go and we get time together. Anyway thats enough about me. Erm what was this thread about?