Bret's the employee (or was); Vince is (still) the boss, although probably not to the extent he was at that point.
And, while I don't think Vince was really right to do what he did, I think Bret was definitely in the wrong to refuse to do the honors. He could have proposed a lot of ways to end that match that Vince probably would have gone for, but he just flatly refused to lose that night. And Vince wanted to take the title off of him, mainly to avoid another Alundra Blayze situation. And crowning a champ on free TV rather than at Survivor Series would have just been silly.
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