Would you?

[monkeystyle]

Alright so there is this girl that I work with. Really chill chick. International history student, pretty smart, well read, has great taste in music, can really hold up her end of a conversation. Super fine and a smile that just fuckin kills me.

Anyway, this is all solid stuff, right? Small problem. Though tbh I'm not sure if it should be a problem or if I am just creating one in my head. I'm 28, right? Well she's 20. And I dunno. Is the age difference really that big a deal?

Would you date somebdy almost 10 years younger than you?

 

[The Small Show]

No. If I was to, she would be 7. Ewww.

 

[Colin Gimp]

yes lmao, she's 20 ffs. my older brother is 27 and he's dating a chick who's younger then me (just turned 19). She's an art student and just loves the guy without all the excess baggage that usually comes with panicking women about to turn 30.

if you guys click, you click. Chicks always want older guys, they like that security and maturity.

 

[monkeystyle]

if you guys click, you click. Chicks always want older guys, they like that security and maturity.

I'm afraid I can only offer 50% of that.

 

[Wordlife]

If you truly believe she could be the one for you, and you guys really relate to each other well, without awkwardness.... go for it, seriously. My Grandpa was married to my grandma for around 28 years... he was 40 when she was 26, and they lasted 28 years. It's a matter of love and faith, do what your heart tells you my friend.

 

[Sharpshooter 221]

Do it Monk, she sounds like an awesome chick, if you two are good together i dont see the problem.

 

[Italian Outsider]

Alright so there is this girl that I work with. Really chill chick. International history student, pretty smart, well read, has great taste in music, can really hold up her end of a conversation. Super fine and a smile that just fuckin kills me.

Anyway, this is all solid stuff, right? Small problem. Though tbh I'm not sure if it should be a problem or if I am just creating one in my head. I'm 28, right? Well she's 20. And I dunno. Is the age difference really that big a deal?

Would you date somebdy almost 10 years younger than you?

When I was working (I was 20 at the time), pretty much any chick my age were dating people 30 years old or something like that.. I got pissed at the time, then I thought ''well, I'll do that too when I'm 30, fuck it''.
So yea...
It may be unusual to you, but not even that weird. 15-20 more years is..

 

[...god...]

Alright so there is this girl that I work with. Really chill chick. International history student, pretty smart, well read, has great taste in music, can really hold up her end of a conversation. Super fine and a smile that just fuckin kills me.

Anyway, this is all solid stuff, right? Small problem. Though tbh I'm not sure if it should be a problem or if I am just creating one in my head. I'm 28, right? Well she's 20. And I dunno. Is the age difference really that big a deal?

Would you date somebdy almost 10 years younger than you?

LOL UR 28? ROFLROFLRO OMGOFMGMOFG LOLOLOLO U PLANNING UR FUNERAL YET? OMG HAHA!

 

[...god...]

Anyways, I'd hit it. She's only 8 years, that's nothing, + she's 20 so it's not like you're a pedophile (yet). Have fun being looked at as one by her friends, though.

 

[noumenon]

Absolutely...20-28 isn't a big age gap at all. As long as she's on the same intellectual plane it's not a big deal at all. I think once you hit your 20's age becomes much less of an issue, especially if the maturity level is there.

 

[This Guy]

age only matters if she is underage. She's not so I'd say go for it. I would if I was single.

 

[monkeystyle]

If you truly believe she could be the one for you...

Whoa now, let's not get ahead of ourselves shall we.

When I was working (I was 20 at the time), pretty much any chick my age were dating people 30 years old or something like that.. I got pissed at the time, then I thought ''well, I'll do that too when I'm 30, fuck it''.
So yea...
It may be unusual to you, but not even that weird. 15-20 more years is..

I guess it's odd because I have dated one girl who was younger than me and it wasn't younger by much. Usually I date women my age or older. Although after the last one it may be time to give the opposite end of the spectrum a shot. Also she's not French so that gets bonus points right now too.

LOL UR 28? ROFLROFLRO OMGOFMGMOFG LOLOLOLO U PLANNING UR FUNERAL YET? OMG HAHA!

Ugh, you joke but do you have any idea how terrifying the idea of being 30 is?

Absolutely...20-28 isn't a big age gap at all. As long as she's on the same intellectual plane it's not a big deal at all. I think once you hit your 20's age becomes much less of an issue, especially if the maturity level is there.

Yeah, she's definitely not your typical 20 year old that's for sure. I guess one of my big issues is that she likes to party on the weekends and don't get me wrong, I'm always up for going and doing whatever but man, last week I had Thursday and Saturday off. There was a get together on Thursday night that ran super late and didn't break up until like 8 am so I had been going since 11 am that previous morning. I had to work in a few hours so I decided not to sleep and just go to work where I proceeded to put on an absolute shit show of a performance because I was so wiped and then it was my Friends birthday on the Friday night so continuing not to sleep I went out again, only this time I passed out at like 2 am and that's never happened to me before. It kinda freaked me out because, I dunno, I guess it means I have to come to grips with getting older and I guess that's my biggest issue now that I think about it. Not is she too young for me but am I too old for her? Can I keep up?

Fuck.

Go insecurities of aging.

 

[Beer]

srsly. dont fuck about with age. 3 years and im 30. that fucking sucks.

 

[Italian Outsider]

srsly. dont fuck about with age. 3 years and im 30. that fucking sucks.

Is the casket ready?

 

[...god...]

Yeah, I'm scared as fuck of 30. Hell, I was even ridiculously depressed when I recently just turned 20.

And lol, wtf? My brother is your age and he parties like every weekend/everyday he can. You're prob just out of shape, maybe malnourished.