Probably by realizing you probably dont actually disagree with most democrat positions. They aint taking away guns. So after that its climate change action, healthcare, education ?(i assume their position is more money to public schools?) , taxing more rich (they rarely have done this in practice. Sp outside maybe a tax break, the only differemce between both is one is actively enacting supressive policies. One thing you could do is nkt vote rebuplican or identify as one until they dont cater to deplorables for votes. You dont have to actually vote democrat either since regardless if thsir policies appeae nice in practice they also very corrupt. But yes, change quite literally starts with one person. Unless like i said that ur ok with the bad smell because u dislike dems more, but then u have to kind of accept this is what you accepted as collateral damage to get.what you wanted