^ Yes, exactly. I myself am not a straight edge, but I'm not out of control either. I mean yes, I enjoy drinking with my friends, and once in a while smoking pot. I'm still a virgin though (15 years old). I have my limits though. I'm never going to smoke ciggarettes, after seeing what they did to my father (he was a great person, but eventually 3 packs a day eventually killed him), and will never do hard drugs of any kind. It isn't a matter of whos smarter, its a matter of who has limits.
Also, I never brag about it. I only talk about it when asked, and never pressure anyone to do anything they don't want to. So basically I'm able to enjoy these things responsibily, without causing damage to my life.
Also, I never brag about it. I only talk about it when asked, and never pressure anyone to do anything they don't want to. So basically I'm able to enjoy these things responsibily, without causing damage to my life.