I didn't say listen ya fuck
But yes I've always butted heads with this lol I don't think staff deserves any extra respect just for being staff, I think you should respect staff like you would a regular member and no one should be warned for saying something to staff that we wouldnt warn them for if they said to a regular member.
But likewise Ive never believed in this "higher standard" for staff either, if we allow heated conversations staff can be involved too, they are not required to always be peacemaker when they have strong opinions.
Not that I think either have actually been an issue on this site tho, we tend to just operate all as friends like 95% of the time