When someone insults you or makes a smart ass comment just be chill and say something witty back. Don't get bent out of shape. That's like throwing blood in the water when there are sharks around.
I do agree with allen though that it goes to far sometimes.
Maybe, but a lot of the time you guys bring it on yourselves. You get all "rawwwrr HULK SMASH!!!!" when people say shit and let's be honest, at that point we all want to make you angry at that point. We like you when you're angry.