I have had quite a few times where I just wanted everyone to fuck off so I could get all my stuff together, move away and just start fresh.
There is a place I want to move to, but I get held back because of my husband. I am not trying to say anything bad about him but he has his mom, dad and sister here, so he will probably never move away from them. K, fine, family, I get it....but I hardly have any family here because they either live back home or are scattered throughout the US. I have my dad, brother, grandma who live near me and my aunt, uncle and cousin live in St. Catherines. That is all the family I have here. My mom is back in Buffalo with my younger brother and, like I said, everyone else is scattered.
I get that people want to be near their elderly parents....my mom is in Buffalo to take care of my grandpa, and was there to take care of my grandma who died in 2010, but, shit, at the same time, it is time to think of your own life and what you want to do with it. I have cousins who live in South Carolina and their dad (my uncle) lives in Buffalo. They visit on holidays and such. It's not difficult to do so.
I hate this place, it's boring as hell, and I want to be somewhere else, see new faces, be in a new area, but I feel trapped because he wont ever move. The houses are cheaper than what he wants to buy here in the place I want to go. Neighbourhoods look hella nice. Of course, I would want to visit before moving there. Saw it on a show about a year ago, started looking in to it, still love the idea of being there.
The thought of leaving the boringness of this city and the stupidity of my job behind is such an awesome thought indeed.