and she fucked up and got my grandkid taken into social services, and I took him back, problem is I'm the sole guardian....so now I have to take care of another kid, I can do that fine, but my niece still lives here, and for some reason she thinks its ok to just randomly fuck off for days, and I have alot of responsibilities still, and the niece is my only link to my sister who died 12 years ago, and I feel like I am in a rock and a hard place.