Big Man I made a bad comment in a heated situation, unsure why you are so obsessed on this one point when most of that discord is filled with hateful comments towards women
I’m not obsessed. I’ve not mentioned it until you criticised the Discord (which you spend a lot of time doing, so the obsessed comment could very easily be bounced back at you).
you added another hateful comment about women. The point is; why are you criticising the Discord for a behaviour which you were part of?
If you want to use the argument of:
A) You were heated
B) You’ve changed since then
in the case of A) at least his comments were targeted at someone who’d wronged him (perceived or otherwise)
in the case of B) why can’t he?
just whichever way you slice it, you shouldn’t take the high ground on behaviour you were part of.