I think that the point that you are refusing to listen to Brandon, is that you were the subject of being picked on by LH. Me, being the nice dude that I can be when I see an underdog, stepped in on your behalf. Whether you asked for it or not is irrelevent, you obviously were incapable of defending yourself.
Then, mid argument, you suddenly are on LH's side. It's not an issue of whether you "betrayed" me or not. It's not an issue as to whether your reasoning was right or wrong. Point blank, you suddenly pulled a Russo Swerve in mid argument and thus lost the respect of a vast majority of members not named LH, who didn't have any respect for you to begin with.
I think that's the problem your failing to see. Let me dumb it down to a level you can understand.
A nerd is being picked on by a bully. A jock comes by to tell the Bully off, but the Bully insists on staying in order to pick on the nerd. The nerd then jumps in and says "Yeah! Butt out, she can bully me all she wants!" and the jock is left scratching his head in confusion.
Do you get it? Or can we expect another multi paragraph diatribe about how the entire forum, including admins are wrong and how you, with all your superior knowledge and foresight, are right above everyone else?