When reading the OP, the main thing that came to mind was when ADR was bitching about "getting backstage heat" over him going to a kid in the front row and ripping up a Ziggler sign. WWE got upset because he was "hurting the experience for the kids in the crowd" but really, that's how lifelong fans are made. That kid must have smiled so big at Ziggler punching this ass in the face over that sign.
See also: the babyfaces being told backstage to "smile and no-sell losses".
You don't need to result to Attitude Era BS (although a LITTLE bit of that every now and then is fine) but when you're getting in the way of what makes pro wrestling work just to be "politically correct" then it's a problem