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[catlady]

he sounds hot

:dafuq: wrong with you?

 

[catlady]

They say that past relationships build for the future. You moved on from that and are happily married now. haha That guy is probably reevaluating his life... so win.

After I left him... Like a month later he showed up where I worked at the time and I snuck out the back door. Then he cried to my husband... Saying he wanted me back and blah blah. Long story short... My husband is my ex's cousin, of whom he is not friends with or even close to. I met my husband thru my ex in 2006. His whole family made him out to be and asshole. After I broke up with my ex he messaged me to tell his cousin something and I told him we weren't together and I said f it, "You wana hang out?" and we did, we hit it off and he pretty much knew he wanted to marry me 3 months in. We been together almost 4 years.

 

[catlady]

too many things

:yay:

 

[Danielson]

After I left him... Like a month later he showed up where I worked at the time and I snuck out the back door. Then he cried to my husband... Saying he wanted me back and blah blah. Long story short... My husband is my ex's cousin, of whom he is not friends with or even close to. I met my husband thru my ex in 2006. His whole family made him out to be and asshole. After I broke up with my ex he messaged me to tell his cousin something and I told him we weren't together and I said f it, "You wana hang out?" and we did, we hit it off and he pretty much knew he wanted to marry me 3 months in. We been together almost 4 years.

That could be a book haha. Seriously, write a book that is crazy.

 

[catlady]

That could be a book haha. Seriously, write a book that is crazy.

It'd prob hurt my ex's feelings. I forgive and forget. He had his share of mistakes, but I also had my share of being a d-bag to him. We weren't good for each other. He wanted to party and do drugs and drink and I'm not into any of that. He needed to be with someone who was into that not me. I like to stay in and watch a movie or spend the day at the park. Plus my beliefs... Well, he didn't respect them.

 

[catlady]

stop making fun of me :upset:

I'm SORRY! :why: am I so mean!!!

 

[catlady]

I think its cuz you have a crush on me ity:

Whelp that cats outa the bag. ity:

 

[Danielson]

It'd prob hurt my ex's feelings. I forgive and forget. He had his share of mistakes, but I also had my share of being a d-bag to him. We weren't good for each other. He wanted to party and do drugs and drink and I'm not into any of that. He needed to be with someone who was into that not me. I like to stay in and watch a movie or spend the day at the park. Plus my beliefs... Well, he didn't respect them.

Respect is the biggest thing in any relationship. I got into the habit of thinking I was in love. For example i thought i loved my ex(wife) She got pregnant and I just thought marrying her would be the right thing. Well after Skyler was born, and this sounds so cliche but I didn't know what love was until that moment. We got a divorce basically because i'm a push over or something like that and she knew i didn't love her. Me dragging out the relationship to try to make her happy was even more painful for her than just ending it. I don't know if true love exists and all that mumbo jumbo but when you have a kid you will know what true love is. It's fucking great, i created those lil monster!

 

[catlady]

Respect is the biggest thing in any relationship. I got into the habit of thinking I was in love. For example i thought i loved my ex(wife) She got pregnant and I just thought marrying her would be the right thing. Well after Skyler was born, and this sounds so cliche but I didn't know what love was until that moment. We got a divorce basically because i'm a push over or something like that and she knew i didn't love her. Me dragging out the relationship to try to make her happy was even more painful for her than just ending it. I don't know if true love exists and all that mumbo jumbo but when you have a kid you will know what true love is. It's fucking great, i created that lil monster!

In my experience, you choose to love someone. Hollywood and music has made love into this emotional roller coaster and its not about that at all. Love is not an emotion, its a choice in which you choose to care more about someone else than yourself BUT never neglecting your own heart in the process. You realized that after your kid because for once you got the choice to love someone without expecting love in return. Its hard to explain but thats the way I see it.

That puppy dog love crap isn't real. Its just lust and the "want" for real love because you don't know what real love is. Not YOU in particular, just people.

 

[Danielson]

In my experience, you choose to love someone. Hollywood and music has made love into this emotional roller coaster and its not about that at all. Love is not an emotion, its a choice in which you choose to care more about someone else than yourself BUT never neglecting your own heart in the process. You realized that after your kid because for once you got the choice to love someone without expecting love in return. Its hard to explain but thats the way I see it.

That puppy dog love crap isn't real. Its just lust and the "want" for real love because you don't know what real love is. Not YOU in particular, just people.

Sounds good to me brit

 

[Dat Kid1]

Macbook Air

 

[Testify]

MS Apollo.

 

[catlady]

wish I could afford a nice laptop

 

[Lacky]

I have a dell laptop, and Acer PC.

 

[arianna]