I'll never understand why people who have already set a boundary and acknowledge that some shit is too heinous to look past, never can comprehend that other people's boundary line is different. Everyone has the lines, they don't have to be the same place.
I would get it a lot more if people didn't have the lines and thought everyone should be separate from their personal lives, then I'd get the confusion about people having different standards when you had none yourself.
No one separates the art from every artist, why do we only pretend like that's a thing when you want art separated from one specific artist instead. Everyone has their lines, yours don't have to be the same and that doesn't make you a worse person either. It's a lot easier to understand where everyone is coming from when you realize they don't disagree with you, their line is just not the same as yours on the subject