Dude, coming clean with any form of sexual abuse is not easy. You can feel scared, fearing what would happen if you do come out and say it? Will the person who is likely in a position of power in some way, whether they are older, in a higher position economically (or fanbase wise), or any other way will do something to paint you as a bad guy? Like, the #MeToo movement may have sparked some people to make false accusations, and some things may be better left private, but at least it has given power to people who deal with this horrible stuff in life (let along just one community) the courage to speak out.
The Twit stuff, maybe, maybe not, but it is still manipulating someone you're in a relationship with to do something they aren't necessarily willing to do of that nature. Without saying who, someone I know once was in a relationship where a girl kept pressuring him to have a three-way with her and her friend which he flat out did not... Except let's just say, she took more extreme measures to get what she wanted and it took a long time for him to come clean about what happened to anyone. Part of the reason why was he was scared and wanted to move past it.
