I say don't. Despite what those videos show you cannot domesticate a bobcat fully. There's a reason they are called risk pets. There is a risk that you cannot fully domesticate it which means that its wild instincts could take over. Especially in a household with a lot of small animals which I understand that you have. Full grown bobcats can also kill animals as big as reindeer so they could if they lose it cause some real damage to a human.
Risks outweigh the cons since there is no guarantee that you can domesticate it.