What attracts you to someone?

[Y2Jasmine]

I want you to list the top 5 physical features you are attracted to when you are looking for a "significant other ". ( example- legs, breasts, eyes, etc)

OK now you have met and are in a relationship with someone who possesses your top 5 physical qualities now what 5 personality traits would he/she have to have in order for the relationship to work for you and move forward? ( example- honesty, sense of humor, kindness )

 

[The Outkast Kid]

5 physical features...

• Big Brown Eyes
• Dimples
• Butt/Legs
• Hair - Brunette
• Smile
• Elbows...:roflmao: ever since Peep's thread, elbows have never...E-E-E-Ever, been the same...

5 personality features...

• Sense of humor
• Has to understand me
• Open Minded
• Easy Going
• Caring and Relaxing
• Energetic
• Crazy!
• Sporadic
• Enjoy things I enjoy, as I would enjoy things she likes

That is a pretty crazy list. Mostly in order of how it would go. I actually described one person there lol. So sometimes you can get everything you ask for . But then you lose it lol.

 

[Dairydude]

Physical

• Not too tall
• long hair
• nice size rack
• not overweight
• not so skinny you can count her ribs

Personal

• Open minded
• Sense of humor that's as twisted as my own
• Understanding
• Kind
• Strong (mentally)

 

[the dark knight]

rofl on the thread.

Physical

• nice ass
• good looking breasts (they dont have to be big...just lookin gooooooood)
• either tanned or angelina jolie's skin tone..
• no need for a jungle.
• Eyes that give you a boner...i know it sounds fucked up but i just felt like typing it.

Personal

• sense of humor
• open minded
• faithful
• honest
• dont be shy

 

[monkeystyle]

Physical:

Good Smile
Relatively healthy. I don't mind if a girl is like a few pounds over weight, but there is definetly a limit.

I really don't have any other specific things that I look for beyond those two.

Personal:

Must have a good sense of humour. Otherwise she will likely hate me.
Intelligent.
Can hold a discussion on things from politics to the more mundane things in life.
Open minded
Knows the value of personal time. (Isn't clingy)

 

[gashface]

Physically I'm not that fussed but I like:
Interesting/qwirky dress sense.
Thinnish build.

Personality is very important to me:
Open minded
Similar sense of humour
Likes to discuss/sensibly argue.
Not clingy.
Intelligence.

I'm actually rather amused to find some of you with open minded as your qualities... but I won't bring up old arguements.

 

[monkeystyle]

Physically I'm not that fussed but I like:
Interesting/qwirky dress sense.
Thinnish build.

Personality is very important to me:
Open minded
Similar sense of humour
Likes to discuss/sensibly argue.
Not clingy.
Intelligence.

Marry me.

I'm actually rather amused to find some of you with open minded as your qualities... but I won't bring up old arguements.

lol. I wasn't going to point it out, but thanks for that.

 

[MikeRaw]

Hmmm....

Appearance
-not too tall,not troo short,maybe around 5'5
-good smile
-nice hair(blonde if its just as a girl that would be hot,but brown if im actuallty in a relationship
-not overweigt.However I dont like skinny,so there is a medium somewhere
-Now I know this makes you sound like a dick by saying it but I need one more so instead of saying good feet(lol)ill just put it never hurts to have a nice as

Personality...
-Can be their own person by what they like
-Can be funny or have a sense of humor when needed.
-Can talk,or at least realize what Im talking about as far as issues like politics,sports,music
-Smart BUT not a nerd that knows everything...Just decent
-honest

 

[phantomgerald]

Physical, as long as she looks cute and homely and have a ponytail, I guess I would be attracted.

Personality, I guess someone outgoing is important. That's probably all I get attracted to.

 

[NinoBrown]

Don't ask too much in a women.

• 
  Nice ass
  Not too short and not taller then me
  Cute face
  In shape
  A little meat but not overweight

• 
  Sense of humor
  Easy going
  Honest
  Smart
  Loving (ya know, a few "jobs" here and there lol)

 

[This Guy]

for me physically, eyes, and then over all face have to be attractive to me, but I have no set type. After that, the rest of the body isn't as important to me, but over all for everything I have no set type. For me it usually does strart out as a physical attraction because of there eyes, there smile or something like that....addmitedly on occasion though its cause they just have a hot body too. But in the end my attraction comes down to there personallity. Are the friendly, funny, good laugh, sweet and kind that sort of mushy crap. lol

 

[Bring Me To Life]

Nice ass
About 5,7
Cute face and a brunette or a girl with Black hair whatever you call that
In shape not to skinny but not always on a diet
Beautiful Eyes

Sense of humor
Easy going
Honest
Smart
Loving

 

[Conc3pt]

Physical
-Rack and ass don't matter much to me (although it's still nice), but nice legs are always a +
-No whales please
-Nice Smile

Personality
-Laughs easily
-The sort of person who won't spend all my social security money when I'm 62
-Smart
-Basically someone who just isn't an asshole

 

[FlamesofFury]

Ok, I am not going to fill out the chart but I am going to give a little rant on myself and why I am the way I am.

What I expect in women:

It boils down for one thing for me and that is the woman or girl that understands me the most will be the one that I will go out with. I don't care about physical appearances to an extent but I will be very biased about it. She doesn't have to have giant boobs or the greatest ass in the world. It really doesn't matter to me but if she can have a good time with me then I will feel like she is one that I would go out with.

The Problem:

I will be the first to admit 3 things

1. I am a prick
2. I am a smart ass
3. I have commitment issues

That alone detracts any woman or girl from me that I would like to pursue. I have basically have accepted the fact that I am a smart ass and prick at heart and half accepted the fact that I will probably live my life to the fullest as a single male. But if there is a woman out there that is willing to accept me for the person that I am then I will look into it but most woman hate my attitude. I don't think I am better than anybody and I'm also not gay but that is just my view on my life. My way in my life is going to make me happy and it ends up being what is good for me that I care about.

So I am attracted to people but I save them time if they like me because I have commitment issues and the rest is set in stone about me and you can see it here on the forums. That's just me, I'm not changing who I am because "I am being myself".

 

[MTG]

Looks

-Smile
-Ass
-Not pale
-Not too fat or too skiny
-eyes


Personality
-Understands me
-Not too shy but not too loud
-not a genious but smart enough
-someone who i could laugh with.
-loves me